Your Questions, Answered

  • We want families to feel comfortable traveling to the Philippines together and experiencing the celebration as a whole. For this reason, we are exploring childcare options during the wedding ceremony and reception to help make attendance easier for parents.

    Children are welcome at the Welcome Party in Manila. The ceremony and reception will be adults-only, but we hope to help coordinate reliable childcare during those events so families can relax and fully enjoy the evening.

    If this impacts your travel plans in any way, please reach out — we’d love to work together to make it possible.

    Children are warmly welcome at our Skaneateles celebration in June, and we look forward to celebrating together there as well.

  • We chose February intentionally — it’s one of the most beautiful times of year in the Philippines. It falls during the dry season, when the weather is typically sunny, comfortable, and less humid than other months.

    In Manila in February, you can generally expect:

    • Average daytime temperatures around 82–88°F (28–31°C)

    • Evening temperatures around 72–75°F (22–24°C)

    • Lower humidity compared to summer months

    • Minimal rainfall

    We wanted the weather to be as pleasant as possible for everyone traveling such a long distance, and February offers some of the most reliable conditions of the year.

  • We’re leaning into the setting and celebrating accordingly — dress codes are outlined below.

    Welcome Party – Resort Chic
    Think elevated tropical glamour: breezy linens, bold prints, flowing silhouettes, tailored short sleeves, and statement accessories. Polished but relaxed — festive and fun.

    Wedding Ceremony & Reception – Black Tie
    Formal evening attire requested. Floor-length gowns, tuxedos, and your most elegant interpretations of black tie.

    We encourage you to wear what you’ve always wished you had an excuse to wear. This is our Met Gala moment — let’s go all out.

    More detailed guidance will be shared in the formal invitation to follow.

  • We recommend arriving in Manila at least one to two days before the wedding weekend begins. This will give you time to adjust to the time difference, settle into your accommodations, and fully enjoy the celebration.

    Manila is approximately a 13 hour time difference from the East Coast of the U.S., and international travel can be tiring — we want everyone to feel rested and ready to celebrate.

    If your schedule allows, we encourage you to make a longer trip out of it and explore! February is a beautiful time to visit the Philippines. But Japan, Thailand, Vietnam, and so much more is just a quick hop away! Skiing in Hokkaido anyone?

  • We recommend planning for at least 3–4 nights in Manila to fully enjoy the wedding weekend and allow time to adjust to the time difference.

    The earliest departure we suggest is Sunday, following the wedding celebration. This allows you to attend all scheduled events and travel home without feeling rushed.

    For those who are interested in extending their trip, we’ll also be sharing details about an optional post-wedding excursion to another beautiful part of the Philippines.

    Of course, we understand that everyone’s schedules are different. Whether you’re able to stay for the full weekend or extend your visit, we’re so grateful you’re making the journey.

  • Yes! For those who are interested in extending their trip, we’re planning an optional post-wedding excursion to one of the Philippines’ most beautiful destinations.

    We’re currently exploring a short getaway to Cebu, with a potential day trip to Bohol — known for its turquoise waters, white-sand beaches, coral reefs, and the iconic Chocolate Hills.

    Cebu is approximately a 1 hour flight from Manila, with frequent daily flights. Bohol can be reached via ferry from Cebu (approximately 2 hours).

    We’ll share recommended flights, hotel options, and a suggested itinerary as plans are finalized.

    Whether you join for the full experience or head home after the wedding weekend, we’re so grateful you’re celebrating with us.

  • In addition to our wedding in Manila, we’ll be hosting a second celebration in Skaneateles, New York on June 5–6, 2027.

    This gathering is designed especially for family and friends who may not be able to travel to the Philippines — though everyone is warmly welcome to join us. Skaneateles is a charming lake town in the Finger Lakes region of New York, known for its beautiful scenery, waterfront views, and nearby wineries.

    It will be a joyful summer celebration close to where Maggie grew up, surrounded by family, longtime friends, and everything that makes upstate New York in June so special.

    More details, including location and event timing, will be shared as plans come together.

    We can’t wait to celebrate together — wherever that may be.

  • Your presence is truly the greatest gift to us.

    We are acutely aware of the time, travel, and expense involved in joining us in the Philippines, and there is absolutely no expectation of a gift. Celebrating together means more to us than anything else.

    For those who have asked, we may share a small registry closer to the date — but please know that your presence is more than enough.